Someone asked about the earliest thing we could remember that let us know we were “kinky”…

“As far back as I can remember my thoughts about the girls I was attracted to were those of control, possession or ownership first - sex came a distant second or third.

Beg for me, crawl for me, worship me, bleed for me… offer to die for me. Short of all that? Beg me for food and water through the crack under the door :)

It has always been thus in my head.” – soulhuntre, about 8 hours ago

So there you are :)