The other day the comment system here at core / dump let me know that there was a new comment on an old, old post. It was my old pal “Master Eso” who must have been out there Googling himself or something. Anyway, he dropped a note just to let me know that in all the intervening years he managed to still be a humorless prig.
Now this is only worth a mention because of a recent post on FetLife, from which I will quote myself…
“Oh hell… everyone I know in BDSM who is even a little bit interesting has a 5 to 1 ratio of people who would say bad things about them vs. people who would give a good "reference". – me
That about covers it.