Yet another post from a FetLife thread. “I was tempted to let this go… but I’ll jump in :) First, my thoughts on the OP question. As a practical matter – what is the real difference between a Master and a Dominant? In short – if someone is called a Master and someone else is [...]
Thoughts on “breaking”…
I just posted this on a FetLife thread… but it is worth copying here. One of the things it means to break someone is simply this – in a contested battle of wills they finally internalize the realization that yours is the stronger. Obviously many, many dom / sub couples have this realization as part [...]
Man, look at the slave heart on her!
A recent Fetlife thread came up on the topic of when, and if, a collar should be removed. It was obviously bait, but the discussion went so wrong I had to put in my thoughts. I started responding to this thread in my usually way – grabbing quotes from folks and replying to them individually. [...]
Imaginary phone call transcript…
The thread about safe calls is still happening over on FetLife. Here is my recent post on the topic. I have paraphrased those I am replying to so as not to betray any confidences. Some_Guy lets us know it is a “wonder” that those people who don’t use safe calls are “still alive”. I know, [...]
On the ever popular topic of “safe calls”…
Another day, another topic in FetLife. Since my previous post there today got trashed, I’ll put this one here for safe keeping. This one is in response to a thread about “safe calls”. If you want to have one and it will make you feel better – go for it. For many people the illusion [...]