The thread about safe calls is still happening over on FetLife. Here is my recent post on the topic. I have paraphrased those I am replying to so as not to betray any confidences. Some_Guy  lets us know it is a “wonder” that those people who don’t use safe calls are “still alive”. I know,  Read more »

In a separate thread, someone made a comment that basically those of us who don’t use safewords are trying to be edgy and thus “hot” but that essentially we are all the same and in agreement. I can’t reproduce the quote exactly since the words of others in private forums are not for me to  Read more »

In a recent thread on FetLife, the topic of safewords reared it’s head again. Here was my contribution. “Whether the word is “tuna” or “stop!” the core component of a safe word is that when it is uttered the dominant / top is _obligated_ to take action, or at least take notice. In many cases  Read more »